Once you have fixed your date with someone, you are damn excited for that. Even more if it’s gonna be your first date. You just feel out of the world. But do not forget few things in your over-excitement because remember first impression is always the last impression.
A first date is always filled with loads of expectations. Like, will the person like me? Is this person going to be the special one in my life? Etc… All are little confused and become less confident about oneself. So first of all be confident and make sure it is seen on your face. Do not say or do anything that may make you feel embarrassed.
Do not analyse everything too fast. Firstly choose the proper venue. Do not select the crowdy places. Choose a place where you will be able to get privacy. A first date should always be short and sweet. You cannot manage it for more time at least for the first time. It is always sweet to leave for wanting more. If you think you like each other than plan for the second date. But do not overdo things in the first date.
While going for your first date try to look your best. Select the best costume from your wardrobe. Wash your hair and set them neatly. Use a silent, pleasant deo and perfume. Do not use any strong perfume. Give your best looks. Go very neat and clean. Maintaining hygiene is very important.
Be kind to your date. No matter whether you continue with it or not. Kindness costs nothing. It is good if you both continue in life and if not then too it is useful as the front person will remember you as a good person in their heart all over the life. But remember one thing as well that do not give false hopes if you do not want to continue. Do not tell will call you or see you if you actually do not want to see them again. A first date is actually like a first interview. It is the time to show your best points and not the weaknesses. Later if you two continue with each other you can definitely share every aspect of your life but surely not at the first meet.
As you are meeting the front person for the first time, no doubt you will try to be your level best. But remember to be yourself at the same time. Do not hide your real personality. Just be the real you. He/she should love and accept you the way you are and not your false version. Present yourself with full etiquettes. No bad manners please. You should be punctual as well. Inform him/her if by any chance you are getting late. Also turn your mobile on silent mode as your calls may disturb the sensitive moments between you.
Do not lie anything about you and your life, For example about your job profile, your financial status, your family background, your future plans, etc. Stick to the truth always. Do not judge immediately. Take your time. First impression can be misleading sometimes. Also give the other person time to think. These decisions are tender so take them properly. Do not pretend to be the one you are actually not. You will insult your identity by doing this. Do not be very quick to judge the person.
Take proper time to know each other before getting physically involved. Also do not get emotionally involved very quickly. Saying ‘I love you’ in your very first date does not look romantic but foolish. It actually sounds funny. Seems that you just have lust, that’s it. Just try to raise your appearance. Do not have the fear of rejection in your mind. Be confident and make sure it is seen on your face.
Just see that your first date should be such that he/she should be waiting for the next many more dates to come with you. You can cherish it always and treasure it as a wonderful memory in your heart forever.
Wish you luck!!!
Post by- Anshu Mundada